Showing posts with label Sexism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sexism. Show all posts

Saturday, June 7, 2014

FOR SALE


For sale the farmer advertised

the best bred of his stock.
And so he spread the news around.
The news travelled fast.
From far and near the buyers came
to see his red roan cow.

"Her pedigree's unimpeachable", he said.
"There's no doubting that
in the prime of life
giving gallons of milk,
many calves too she will bear.
Yet when she's old
She'll have so much beef
An army she may feed.
Her skin is of the softest roan
no factory can refuse…"

And so the farmer prattled on
the quality of his stock.

My son's of age the farmer thought
the eldest of his brood.
And so he spread the word around.
The news travelled fast.
From far and near the brokers came
of brides-to-be to speak.

"She's a homely type", one broker said.
"I assure you that
of flawless skin, the divine shape,
a house too she can keep.
A pleasure to behold
Yet ever so strong,
many robust sons she'll bear
of talented mein, with house worth lakhs,
jewels and farmland too she'll bring;
no thinking man'll resist…"

And so the broker prattled on
the quality of his stock.

"Why is this so" a daughter asks,
"that we be bought and sold?"
And soon she passed the message around.
The news traveled fast.
From far and near the women came
to see what could be done.

"We'll meet with hostility first," said one.
"We should recognize that
With bricks and bats and this and that
 they'll try to keep us down.
 We're human beings with brains and mind
and not just household slaves.
No more for us as dressed up dolls
and beings to bear more heirs.
We're through with being just mindless beings
whom man cannot resist…"

And so the women vowed to rise:
No more would they be stock.

By Malathi Raghavan 1984-85


Thursday, March 20, 2008

Race/Ethnicity or Gender--which comes first?

Kate Zernike, in a New York Times article titled 'Post-feminism and other fairy tales,' writes:

...[M]any women who fought the first wave of battles for gender equality have seen a bias against Mrs. Clinton — which helps explain why older women form the core of her support...

...A contest between a woman and an African-American raises the inevitable question about whether it is harder to overcome racial bias than gender bias. Few claim to know the answer, and many argue it’s too hard to tease out the ways each plays a role. But some also argue that the media is not as quick to recognize misogyny as it is to recognize racism. “The media is on eggshells about race, but has blinders on about sex and gender stereotyping,” said Ms. Goldberg of Columbia... [Link]

If you are skeptical of Zernike's assertion, then pay attention to how prevalent and familiar the insult 'bitch' is in everyday use. One political blogger, reacting to Zernike's article, has a post titled, 'Stop trying to excuse the racist bitch'. (He's alluding to Geraldine Ferraro). Under similar circumstances in the opposite camp, we would be hard-pressed to find a post titled 'Stop trying to excuse the sexist _______.' Fill in the blank with your choice of ethnic/racial slur.